the cronicle!

so... how do u judge a person? is it just judge them by how they look? or even how they dress?or...maybe...who they hang out with? or even worst, by listening to others? it's hard to judge now isnt it? you might don't like that person when u hear lousy stuff about them but when u got to know them yourself, u might feel awful that u judged them wrongly before.... i have to admit i was once like that...i judge before i actually know them but now.... i've change...i really am... i've open my heart and don't judge people on my first meet! we all deserves a second chance don't u think? because a few days ago, i found out that someone who i've just met twice in my entire LIFE called me a liar to his 'ex' girlfriend just because i was on her side on this one... and to tell you the truth, i don't think i said anything about him or even mention about him at all to anyone or even his ex-girlfriend... so how come he would say that about me? well, i guess it's just a thing to get out from his treaky situation by blaming others...but i'm kindda glad that my name was brought out! i mean, well, atleast it shows that he noticed me!hahahaa~ it was thoughtful of him to remember me by two meetings.... im happy! :D or maybe she just mention me to make me hate him more.... i dunno... all i can say is that...i don't hate... i love everyone.... i don't wanna judge anyone.....

my friend once said, "if you're telling the truth, what are u afraid of?".... she's so right on this...i mean, you should be afraid if you lied to someone, because in the end, they'll find out eventually...so why trouble yourself lying? you did a mistake...so what?everyone does that...i do that too! if you think that you can get away from everything, you are so wrong.....eventually.. :)

how can you hate the person who is your friend for a long time just because he is side with the opposition from you? it's not anybody's fault for siding whoever's side right? although we might know who is right and who is wrong, you shouldn't just let go of something you had for a long time... friendship! what i've learned from friendship is that..... no matter how ugly the situation is, or how your friend doesn't help you in your own problems for some reason, it doesn't mean that you should just end your friendship just like that.... it just sound so 5 year olds... we all might have different opinions....we might hate each other's football team, but in the end.....we still live in this place called earth.... and one thing that brings us closer...friendship! tell me, how many times have u fought with your best mates? plenty right? and you guys still make it all up, although it might take some times, you still make up! so never say that he/she's your ex-friend or no longer friends anymore because as you guys get older, you might laugh at yourself or blame yourself for letting go something so precious.... just think about it! :)

if someone is nice, i don't think you should take advantage on him/her because one day, she might crack herself and will never be the nice person she was before...she might looked innocent, nerdy and virgin mary type but deep down...i think she's more than that......she can be fun to be with or make fun to but...everyone got their own feelings right? we all do.....so whats the fun of hurting other people's feeling? you tell me? it might be just for laugh at first, but when you get carried away, i don't think it's a laughing matter anymore.... one phrase i found 'One question haunts and hurts,too much to mention:Was I really seeking good or just seeking attention?Is that all good deeds are, when looked at with an ice-cold eye?If that's all good deeds are, maybe that's the reason why...I promise no good deed will I attempt to do again, ever again!No good deed will I do again!' i know it's kindda harsh but it's true isn't it? well...it's just my opinion anyways...... feel free to speak your mind!

cheers
Shahila Johan
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